Confirmation
I am in this thing ALONE! It was served to me from someone who is ill, like me, but I guess...screw family, friends, and anyone who means anything to me. If you don't let anyone in, and don't reveal who you really are, then the chances of you getting hurt are lower. Why invite someone in, and love them as family, if you're going to be alone anyway?
1 Other Thoughts:
Your view seems slightly askew. You need to let people in. Try your best to pick people worthy of your love, but you need them. Self-sufficiency is one thing but companionship is a necessity. Humans are social beings, it is encoded in our very genes. Though hurt and/or rejection are terrible things, they are also inevitable as death Amber. The only things that you can really do are building-up your immunity to the pain and find ways to cope. That doesn’t mean building-up walls and hiding behind them. It means getting a thicker skin and don’t totally let yourself become engulfed in there affection – especially new people in your life. Let them build trust. It shouldn’t be freely given; they must earn it. But you must let them in. It is actually one of the healthiest things you can do. Love is needed. And you deserve it, so don’t fight it. You also must love yourself.
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